If a man has never asked you out, you’ve not hustled – Man raises alarm over influential Abuja men who approach men for romantic relationships (video)

A Nigerian man has raised the alarm over influential men who, according to him, approach other men in Abuja for romantic relationships.

In a video shared on X, he warned men against dismissing such approaches, claiming that some of these individuals may use different tactics to manipulate those who reject them.

“As a man in Abuja, if a man has never asked you out, bro, you’ve not hustle. Don’t ever make mouth like, ‘God forbid, Tufiakwa, never me.’ Pray. Those people are not ordinary. Sometimes they might be tempting. One way or the other, they will manipulate you, or if that doesn’t work, once you eat or collect something from them, they’ve already brainwashed you,” he said.

Identifying himself as a Hausa/Fulani man, he insisted that such encounters are real and urged men to be cautious when dealing with influential individuals.

He also warned against confronting or fighting such people, stressing the importance of keeping evidence of any interaction.

“To those of you that will say, ‘Hand never touch person father?’ Person wey you go beat, the truth is there are some people you can’t touch. Whatever you do, let there be evidence, because they won’t leave a single trace. And if you don’t have any, they will make sure you land in Kuje Prison,” he added.

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