Nigerian lady calls out ex-husband, calls for refund of groom worth she paid

A Nigerian lady recognized as Queen Raymond has known as out her ex-husband and demanding a full refund of the “groom price” she claims to have paid on his head.

In a collection of Facebook posts, Raymond detailed the monetary dynamics of her failed marriage, alleging that she single-handedly financed their wedding ceremony, bought a automotive for her ex-partner, and sponsored his training. She additional claimed that she took on the whole lot of their marital payments, purchased him clothes, and offered him with a brand new cellphone, all whereas she was in a considerably higher monetary place than he was.

Raymond alleged that regardless of appearing as a supportive and submissive spouse, she uncared for her personal wants whereas her ex-husband closely managed her private funds, noting that she required his express permission to purchase her personal garments. She additionally beforehand claimed that she was manipulated into staying within the union by using charms (juju).

In a current replace revealed on Monday, October 26, Raymond alleged that since her departure from the wedding, her ex-husband has boasted that he might nonetheless entry her at any time when he chooses, no matter whether or not she strikes on together with her life.

“It’s four years since my marriage ended and I just remembered that this stewpeeeddddd man boasted that he can come back anytime he likes to knack me whenever he so wish.. he said even in ten years to come when I must have longed moved on with someone else, He can still do it,” she wrote.

“It’s four years already, the juju wey give you this level of confidence never still gree you do am!!! Godwin return my 100k groom price!”

“The first picture is me as a married woman.. I was doing well and better financially but it wasn’t reflecting on my looks.. I literally looked beggarly and frustrated.

“Godwin has to provide his permission for me to purchase new garments with my very own cash. I bathe with this Hausa sabulu cleaning soap and rub ori offered for 100 and sure I used to be incomes effectively from my enterprise.

“Where and who does my money go to? Godwin.. there’s no amount of money i didn’t spend to please a Youlexx narcissistic man.. from single handedly paying all the bills in the marriage, to buying him a car, sending him to school, shopping good clothing for him, cooking different meals for him with his choicest protein, getting him new phone and literally paying him to stay married to me

“Everything a person was and is meant to do for me as a lady, I did it for  Godwin. Literally switching roles. I might afford to pay cleaners however no, Godwin insists that I prepare dinner, clear and washed his garments and nonetheless work!

“I completely neglected myself in the marriage and focused more on pleasing a man.

“The second image is me after divorce, i don’t earn as a lot as I do as I misplaced my enterprise and began rebuilding myself and life again financially.. I’m additionally single handedly elevating a baby but I don’t look as horrible as I regarded as a wealthy married lady

“Dear women, in all you do, never ever neglect yourself in the name of marriage. Pursue your dreams, invest in yourself, be intentional about your growth.”