"The first man that failed me was my father" lady writes as she shares how she and her siblings suffered

A girl has accused her father of being a very good father to his second spouse’s youngsters whereas failing the 8 youngsters he had along with her mom, the primary spouse.

Ibe Peace Chidinma took to Facebook to relate how her siblings suffered hardship and needed to be despatched to function maids to completely different households as a result of her father couldn’t take care of them.

She stated her mother and father had 8 youngsters and her mom left residence to fend for the household whereas she alleged that her father, who stayed again, virtually deserted them.

She shared a photograph she took along with her father and wrote: “The first man that failed me was my father.  He never took care of the 8 children from his first wife and he married a second wife. Anyi tara aki!

“I’ve let go however I am unable to overlook.  I, Ibe Peace Chidinma suffered  I am unable to forgettttt. Not doable. Any time I keep in mind these horrible years, my blood pumps abnormally.

“Kudos to my mum for not abandoning us.

“When it obtained powerful that she couldn’t preserve fending for 8 youngsters, she ran away to her mother and father in Aba. We had been roaming the village like orphans. Imagine leaving as a maid to your neighbor within the village when you will have a father in the identical village/compound.

“Guess what? My mum returned, she came back for us.

“I can personally depend 10 individuals I lived with as a maid. I suffered eeee.

“Does my father know what happened behind the doors of those people he dashed us too?

“The most horrible of all of them was my journey to Umuahia. Ohhhh. From Umuahia, I used to be exported to Owerri, and from Owerri to Port Harcourt and my household by no means knew the place I used to be.

“What a Horror!

“Did you realize that I could not run away as a result of I did not know the path to my village. Ahhh Port Harcourt was like USA to me.

“I tried running away severally and I still end up in the same house I ran from. No one suffered as I did.”

She continued: “After so many years, I never knew my mum has gone to the same Umuahia to look for me but never succeeded.

“After so a few years of horrific ache, my mum efficiently traced me from Umuahia to Owerri then Port Harcourt, once I noticed her, I acknowledged that face cos my coronary heart melted. I resurrected.

“Sadly, she didnt go back with me because of poverty. She told me she would come back for me. Terrible. Story for another day.

“Imagine what would have occurred if my mum deserted us or she by no means lived for us.

“We the 8 children of Ibe Ugochi and Last Kobo wouldn’t have known one another because we were all sent away to different locations and to different people as maids and helps.

“Na my elder sister get gist. That one they packaged affected by beginning give am.

“Nnam you might be a good father to your second wife’s children but you failed us.

“I by no means felt liked. I’ve by no means stayed underneath the identical roof with you since my major faculty days as a result of I am unable to keep in mind nursery.

“Maybe I will feel good if I make this post today. There’s a pain behind this smile!”

Her publish sparked feedback from individuals who say they suffered an identical destiny as hers.